This book was absolutely wonderful in that it covered the family history sowell, leaving out very few details, even though it was all put together by word of mouth, lettersand photographs!
This must have been an extremely difficult book to write for all partiesinvolved, and for that the author and her relatives have my deepest respect.
This book isabsolutely beautiful and represents Chinese culture very clearly and in an interesting manner. Iwould recommend this book to ANYBODY
May-Ying had started out as a young innocent girl whocame to North America on falsified papers and was thrust into a life that she didn't desire. It wasin Vancouver and the numerous Chinatowns that dotted the area that her wild side let loose,especially when Sam Chan returned for an extended stay in China to build a house. Now May-Ying wasforced to work in a tea house to support not only herself, but also her infant daughter (theauthor's mother) as well as those in China. She was required to send back money to support thebuilding of the house.
The rest of the book goes on to describe the hardships that she faced aswell as the emotional and physical abuse suffered by the third daughter Hing. Sam Chan did indeedhave very good intentions to try to provide well for the families on two continents, but it wouldall back fire during The Great Leap Forward and the Cultural Revolution that would take place. Thisis when Sam Chan would return to Vancouver and start living apart from May-Ying and Hing.
The lastfew chapters deal with the author trying to reunite the two families and helping her mother come toterms with the demons that were inside her. Her mother felt that the happiness that she should havehad was sacrificed for the other family in China. After meeting her siblings for the first time, shewas able to answer a lot of questions that for a long time she had suppressed.
An interesting lookinto what life was like for those looking for the pot of gold in another country and the sadnessthat was shared among the many who made the trip.
I read this book a few years ago in my 1st yearEnglish class. I am really glad that the prof chose this book. I recommended this book to friendsand they told me they love it.
To enrich Chong's narrative, a biography no less, she includes family pictures. Andthe links back to the family in China show the culture that is stuck in another century, anothertime. It is a picture that reveals family that is revered though separated by distance and time. Reading this book enriched my understanding of a people about which I knew very little. I highlyrecommend this book. It is an extension past the very excellent fiction of Amy Tan and well worththe read.
Denise Chong ishonest and her story is remarkable. I read that book in one night and had to miss school the next day because I could not put the book down. The pictures in the book gives a dimension to thecharacters.